the dating game

hey everyone! how was your weekend? did you all have fun?



so i've been noticing this trend when i go out......alcohol. lol all of my friends, and myself included, consume A LOT of drinks. this weekend, no drinks. just a beer or two with my meal and thats it. on friday night i got drunk, but i didn't really FEEL it til i got home. at the bar, i was ok. i felt "good". but they say shots sneak up on you and indeed they did. i didn't get sick tho. I'm a G, i can hold my liquor.

i had two dates this weekend too. friday afternoon, i went to lunch with a friend and it was nice. i'm not sure u would call it a date because we have known each other for a while now. plus we kinda hinted toward dating years ago, but friendship fitted us better at the time. *anywho, i'm rambling now* so we went to eat and it was fun. we always have fun when we hang out. saturday night i had another date with this girl met in school. she's a really nice girl. definitely different from ANY girl that i would normally date. she's a red bone, as they say in the south. her body reminds me of one of those girls in a 50 cent video. i know what you're thinking and yes, i can handle it. all of it. lol but anywho, we decided to go to this little mexican place in mid town (shout out to the big homie). so we get there(after gettin lost 50 million times because of the rain) and we had a really nice time. we talked about what we want in life and the things that we are going to do to make sure we get there. she told me that she had never been taken to places like this for dinner. mainly because of the terrible guys that usually try to take her out.
PAUSE**** TO ALL THE GOOD GUYS OUT THERE* you would be surprised at how many pretty women don't get asked out. if u see a nice looking women GO FOR IT!! she's most likely single.

so we talk about of previous relationships and things that we like to do for fun. she's a nice girl. fun,and easy going. we ended up staying there til the place closed at 3am. yeah, it was THAT nice. then we talked til about 5am because i HAD to get some sleep for work the next morning. but unlike the other girls that i met recently, u can actually see what she says she's about instead of just hearing it. we are gonna hang out this week again and prolly again this weekend. we didn't kiss or anything yet, but i AM looking forward to it. there's something else about her that i'm leaving out, but i will bring it up in later posts if we end up getting serious.

so that was my weekend. its almost time for me to go to class so i will hit you all up later on night...
peace&love

it was all a dream

so last night i had a dream.....

it was about my ex's. ALL of them. they were all in a room and each one of them had something to say to me. My first girlfriend, tiffany, i saw her first. i walked up to her, hugged her and before i could get any words out, she kisses me. it was like i could feel it. passionate. then she slapped me. she told how mad at me she was for not coming to nashville and being with her at school. i told her i had to leave memphis and this isn't where i was suppose to be. she started cryin and said "you're the reason why i'm married to HIM!" she's pointing in the direction that "he" was in and i walk in that direction and then i see another ex, Asha. Now with Asha, it went differently. she wouldn't look me in the face. i remember in the dream that i was trying to make her look up but she wouldn't. all she kept sayin was "why?? why did u leave me? i loved you. why did u do this to me? why did u do this to me?" but she wouldn't cry. that would be giving me too much power over her. when i opened my mouth to "explain" nothing came out. i really had nothing to say. not because i'm an asshole, but because i didn't know what to tell her to make things right. i just hugged her and walked away.....

now here's where the dream got tricky. there where other girls i dated, but they were in pictures. not actually real people. their eyes moved when i walked by but they didn't say anything. then i walked out the room and i saw my most recent ex, danielle. she grabbed my hands and she said "you were my everything. BUT he's ALL i need." but instead of me walking away. she did. now i'm not sure what exactly this dream represents, but it was really strange considering the fact that i don't think of any of them on a daily basis. i may see something and it brings back a memory but thats as far as it goes. one could say that i have commitment issues. that's a possibility. but i really woke up this morning like WTF was that about.

NICE GUYS

So yesterday I’m on twitter and I see someone tweet “guys trust women too easily” or something along the lines of that. I read it. Thought about it. Even tried to see things from a different angle. And right when I started to respond to it, big homie had already taken care of it. I’m so sick and tired of women saying that men are too nice or that they don’t like the nice guy and they want a guy that has a little….”edge.” don’t get me wrong. I AM a nice guy. But a pushover I am not by a long shot. I simply respect women and I try to treat women the way they should be. I don’t call them bitch or ho or anything else that’s disrespectful. Then women say, I want a REAL MAN. Someone that’s not with the bullshit and games. Hmmmmmmm……. Let’s think about that. If you only date guys like slim thug and Gucci Mane, what do you expect. Stop complaining about things when YOU are the one that’s in control over who YOU date!! That’s like me sayin I want a good girl, but I only look for girls at the club with damn near no clothes on #o_ O. C’mon people. Let’s be real here. I’ll admit that I do complain about the quality of women in the city of Memphis, but I’m honestly looking in the best places. Which means that I know what I’m doing wrong and first thing that I’m changing is my age requirement. It’s all about being honest with yourself. The sooner women AND men do this the better place this world will be.

no internet

heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllllllllllloooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!


it feels so good to be back!!!! man i have so much to catch u guys up on. i haven't had the internet at the house for a min but i'm going to change blogger sites most likely so i can blog from my phone. Or i might just blog when i'm on campus waiting for class to start. so without further delay, here it goes!!!

first of i wanna say welcome! to my new follwers. i didn't know i could get more followers while not blogging for almost a month lol but anywho, thanks for joining. don't be afraid to comment. um, christmas was cool. nothing happened. i moved into my new house 3 days after christmas and it was a huge disaster(those of you who follow me on twitter already know the story) but now everything is getting itself worked out and its starting to become a home instead of it looking like a house. new years was cool. i can't go into details (what happens on new years eve, stays in new years eve) but i made some "new" friends that night and no its not what u think lol the "streak" still continues. 7months and counting of no sex. i also have a few new years resolutions i want to share with you all. but not today because i'm kinda rushed for time lol

work is going well. i'm actually getting ready for my trip next month i wanna say or in march but i'm ready for this free week long trip to a new warm city. i'm crossing my fingers hoping that its in LA this time. last week was the worst week of my life. i wrecked my truck, found out that license was suspended(for something that i went to court for in MARCH OF 2009!!!) got arrested for it and i have misdemeanor. yeah i know FML!!!!!! BUT i get EVERYTHING taken care of and its going to be off my record as soon as i go to court for it next week. i also want to thank everyone that gave me rides for those days and for taking me to the dmv to get my license back. my truck looks like it wasn't even in a wreck. last week, well 2 weeks ago now, i was just feeling really down because i just felt like something was going to happen because everything was just going so smoothly and then BOOM! all that happened in 1 DAY! But i didn't give up and get everything that i needed to get done in 2 days! i missed the first 2 days of my classes but i was able to arrange my schedule around so i really only missed 1 day. so thats cool. i really am proud of myself gettin this done because in the past i prolly would have just waited at home and just waited for people to come help me or whatever. but i was up every morning at 6:45am doing what i needed to get done. #SLAPHANDS #POW lol

social life......ok so about those friends i met. lets just say NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS. i met these girls almost 2 yrs ago. well one of them i never actually met but we knew who each other where, anywho, i bumped into them one night at the club and it was like "get the hell outta my face vibe" then a week later i saw them again and it was like "hey! i'm drunk. your drunk lets be friends." but we actually ended up having a conversation while drunk and we got cool. i'll admit when i woke up the next morning i was thinking " did that really happen" lol but hey, God puts people in your life for specific reasons. So i'm really interested in seein how this goes. we talk via twitter and whatnot and laugh and joke so its cool. its just crazy how life turns, flips and rolls. as far as me dating goes, well i'm not. lol i meet girls. nice ones. cute ones. but no one has yet to just stand out. well some of them do but for the wrong reasons. to all my female followers, please don't be afraid to tell us that you aren't interested or your dating other guys, because its not going to hurt our feelings. now when u "act funny" thats when we have to put you in the do not fuck with category. lol and once you go there, there's no coming back. so the search continues. i used to hate this process, but now i despise it because it just keep going further and further downhill. don't you just love the single life???? lol but i have been going out a lot and having fun with the TEMPS lol i've gone out more in less then 1 month of 2010 than i did in ALLLLLL of 2009. even though i had a rough week, 2010 is going to be a GREAT year!!!!!

thats all i have for now. until next time, peace&love......