i'm back from my trip to DC/NYC and i must say i enjoyed it in every way possible!!! i miss being on the east coast so much!! there was so much to do on a regular day of the week. here in memphis it feels like, sometimes in order to have fun, there has to be something going on. now don't get my wrong, my friends and i have fun every time we hang out. but in dc every night is exciting. and i don't even want to start on NY night life.

Visiting my family was great too! i haven't seen them in years. i got to finally meet my favorite cousins' kids and her husband. i got my meet my other cousins' new husband too! really nice guy. i can't wait to go back. i'm actually thinking about moving up there sometime next year in 2012. my job will allow me to transfer and i can finish school online. i want to move to DC though. i had more fun there. in NYC i wouldn't be able to focus on work if i lived there. i would only want to have fun and run the streets. in DC i could work and commute to NY on the weekends and come back on sunday night and be ready for work on monday. i just have a few things here in memphis that i need to handle first and then i will be ready to dip.

thats all i have for now talk to you guys later
peace&love

i haven't blogged in a long time. i stopped blogging for a bit b/c of some things that have been going on in my life that i wanted to internally fix before i publicly spoke on them. well, it never happened, but i still don't necessarily want to publicly discuss it. i feel like i owe it to those people to let it go unheard from the public eye. then i also stopped blogging b/c at the time, certain people were going back to the girl i was dating at the time about what i was saying in my blog as if she and i weren't already discussing what was being said here in our relationship. Luckily for me i don't have to worry about either of those things anymore.

so what am i going to talk about today??????

i want to talk about "friendships by association". I have come across a lot of these in recent years b/c of the people i hung around. i normally wouldn't ever talk with these people but b/c i'm such a sociable person, these people came into my life by default. now lets get one thing clear......i am NOT a snob. i am simply saying that i wouldn't normally be friends with these people thats all. i'm glad that i have done better at who i call "friend" because those people clearly didn't deserve it.

this weekend coming up i'm going to DC and NYC. i can't wait! i haven't been home in almost 6yrs and i can't wait to see my family. i miss them so much!! i also get to see someone very special to me. She is such a great person. you guys have no idea how great it is to have someone like her in my life #787. But thats enough of the mushy stuff. lol gotta keep it g status.

thats all i have for now. you guys take it easy....
peace&love