i haven't blogged in a long time. i stopped blogging for a bit b/c of some things that have been going on in my life that i wanted to internally fix before i publicly spoke on them. well, it never happened, but i still don't necessarily want to publicly discuss it. i feel like i owe it to those people to let it go unheard from the public eye. then i also stopped blogging b/c at the time, certain people were going back to the girl i was dating at the time about what i was saying in my blog as if she and i weren't already discussing what was being said here in our relationship. Luckily for me i don't have to worry about either of those things anymore.

so what am i going to talk about today??????

i want to talk about "friendships by association". I have come across a lot of these in recent years b/c of the people i hung around. i normally wouldn't ever talk with these people but b/c i'm such a sociable person, these people came into my life by default. now lets get one thing clear......i am NOT a snob. i am simply saying that i wouldn't normally be friends with these people thats all. i'm glad that i have done better at who i call "friend" because those people clearly didn't deserve it.

this weekend coming up i'm going to DC and NYC. i can't wait! i haven't been home in almost 6yrs and i can't wait to see my family. i miss them so much!! i also get to see someone very special to me. She is such a great person. you guys have no idea how great it is to have someone like her in my life #787. But thats enough of the mushy stuff. lol gotta keep it g status.

thats all i have for now. you guys take it easy....
peace&love