So I originally wanted this post to be about my trip to Chicago, but I feel like I have to get this off my chest. If this blog jumps, its because there is so much on my mind/chest that needs to be expressed
*disclaimer* this isn’t about anyone in particular that is in my life. its just about things in general.....
Today I read, the big homie’s blog and there was something he said in it that hit me directly in the face. He said something about giving people the time that don’t deserve it. For the longest, I’ve been feeling like I have been wasting my time, but I didn’t want to really admit it……until today. No longer am I going to waste my time with people that shouldn’t have my attention. Yeah its cool to get some attention every now and then, but it comes a time in our lives when we say enough is enough. I’ve heard enough of the “I miss you” and “when am I gonna see you again” non sense texts. I’m not an arrogant person in the least bit, but these people aren’t on my level. I mean if you want to see me, you’ll make time for it. This is how you can tell when a person is with the shit. They always have an excuse about why they couldn’t come see you or why they had to cancel meeting up. This is ALSO a key sign that this person shouldn’t be around. It’s just accepting the truth. They don’t need to be around so let them go. Trust me. Its not as bad you u think it might be. Yeah my phone doesn’t ring and I average maybe 5 texts a day. But in the long run, it will all be worth it. My ex used to always say that I kept people that shouldn’t be around stay around too much. At the time I didn’t see anything wrong with it because I wasn’t really talkin to them, but now that I’m single, I see why I should get rid of them. It even goes for friendships. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but they always find ways to disappoint. Again this isn’t about anyone in my close circle, im just sayin in general. We all know someone like this.
Also I have to get this off my chest too. on twitter; ladies, ladies ladies. Please STOP TALKING ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE ON TWITTER!!!!! We know you fuckin. You don’t have to blast it and then turn around 5min later talkin about how you want a good man. Really? I mean really? #cmonson what guy is going to take u seriously. I know a girl that tells a guy that she likes to have sex a lot on her first date with them. We are grown as hell!! Don’t know real man want a woman like that. Then you wonder why no one takes you seriously. Cuz you let him hit on the first night!! This ain’t no movie ma! This is real life!!! This is the one that kills me though, @____ I’m sooo horny *next tweet* @_____ I gotta get some *ick asap!! *Next tweet* damn I wish I had a boyfriend that I could lay with right now. I don’t know why I can’t find a guy #fml…… REALLY(EXCUSE MY FRENCH) SKEEO???? (I don’t want to say the b word) REALLY??? No guy wants to be with a woman like that. I mean you can casual sex if you want, but a) please be safe and use protection. B) don’t blast that ish on the internet. If you meet someone u like, make him think that he just got “lucky”. BUT, let me make this clear too, guys talk too ladies, so don’t think u get sleep with one and the other not find out. Hate to burst you alls bubbles #donthateme #ejshrug
So where do you stand now is the question you ask? I stand single and I’m satisfied with it. I’m happy. Not looking or expecting anything from anyone. Not looking for anyone or anyone’s relationship. I don’t need time to “find myself” because I’ve already done that. I know what I want and I’m not settling for the everyday pointless games anymore. So keep the scrabble and taboo board games at the house.........This kid is grown.
peace&love
I think its really immature to expose your sex life on twitter . Some things should be left private and females often wonder why they get no respect . You have to respect yourself first before some one else can give it to you .
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