whats good everyone!
i've had writers block the past couple of days but today i feel like writing for some reason. nothing specific on my mind, just feel like bloggin. well, i take that back. i read something the other day that really upset me and i wanted to just sit down and blog and just rant, but its not even worth it. i also came up with an idea to actually express my feelings and emotions lately i think you all will enjoy it. i just have to figure out how to put it on here lol
i wanted to talk about the tiger woods situation and cheating but i really don't feel like puttin that much energy into it. i tweeted on it and i think i made my point. although i do feel like sayin a little something about now so here's my thoughts on cheating....don't do it. its not worth it. been down that road 1 time and 1 time only. although certain people think that i did it multiple times, it only happened with one person and i regret it. i should have walked away from the relationship before i even entertained the "fling".
i've always been the good guy, honest and reliable; and in my last relationship, i turned into the bad guy. i wasn't honest with myself or my ex at times and it had a snowball affect on the relationship. now this last go round of our attempt to work things out, i will not put on myself because the same things that she complained to me about, she did. she wasn't honest with me from the jump, so thats something that she is gonna have to live with. but thats another blog for another day. CHEATING. people, how on earth can we say that we are ready for the " next chapter" in our lives if we are still doing the same crap that we've been doing since we have been in high school? u can't move forward and you won't move forward. if you aren't ready for the responsibilities that come with the relationship, don't get in one. keep doing your solo dolo thing and keep pushin. thats all i have to say, this is startin to irritate me.....PEACE&LOVE
Well alright...old Tiger got everyone in the mood to talk about cheating. Here's my statement then I'm done.
ReplyDeleteYou're ABSOLUTELY right! Cheating is sooo not worth the time or the effort that it takes to cheat. I've been guilty of the crime once! I cheated on a boyfriend for a year...an entire year! *sighs* Cheating caused me to be extremely paranoid about my relationship once I stopped. Because at the same time I was cheating, the boyfriend's ex was creeping back into the picture as a friend. So I was like, well if I sleeping with my friend, surely he is! Well of course this caused us to fight and fight and fight. My paranoia got so bad...that I even went through his phone. All of this because of the guilt I felt. And you know me dude, I'm not even the type of chick to be going through phones and ish like that. At that point, I realized that cheating was not for me. Soo....there will be no more cheating on my part. I don't like what conscious does to me. It really messes me up!