Sunday, April 18, 2010

issues resolved

a few entries ago i wrote about having issues with being "friends" with my ex girlfriends friends. and i have decided on not to say anthing. my ex hit me up and we talked about it. but she didn't exactly get into her opinion on it, but she thought that it would be best if i expressed how i felt to them. but honestly, i'm not really concerned about them.i dont see/speak to them enough to care. speaking on my ex, last sunday she sent me a text that really meant a lot to me. for the longest now, i've felt a certain way about how things ended between her and myself and it was nice to hear her say what i thought she didn't feel. i dont really want to get into what was said, but it was needed for me to completely move on. because honestly, when u have a brake up and it wasn't on good terms, there are things that need to be said, for both sides to feel............closure.maybe not both sides because i can only speak for myself. don't get me wrong, i HAVE moved on, but there was a small portion of me that needed to hear that to be 100%.......idk. i think i'm rambling now. smh

1 comment:

  1. i'm currently in the same boat. it stings at first but it's how you begin the healing process! feels good to get everything out in the open. take his/her critique/comments and make yourself a better person for the next.

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